Considering an Open Marriage: Consent, Agreements and Everyday Care

Considering an Open Marriage: Consent, Agreements and Everyday Care

An open marriage usually means that spouses agree they may have sexual or romantic connections outside their marriage, within terms they have discussed. People use the label differently. Before acting on it, clarify what each person means and whether everyone affected...
When You Worry He May Leave: Changes, Clarity and Your Choices

When You Worry He May Leave: Changes, Clarity and Your Choices

When a relationship feels different, it can be tempting to look for signs that he is about to leave. Less conversation, changed plans or a quieter sex life may worry you, but none of them can establish another person’s intentions. A checklist cannot predict a...
Dealing With Emotional Blackmail: Boundaries and Safety

Dealing With Emotional Blackmail: Boundaries and Safety

“If you loved me, you would do this.” A statement like that can be upsetting, especially when it comes with threats, punishment or pressure to abandon a choice. You may find yourself agreeing mainly to prevent the other person’s reaction. Emotional blackmail is...
The Law of Attraction and Finding Love

The Law of Attraction and Finding Love

The law of attraction is meaningful to some people as a belief about thoughts, intentions and what they welcome into life. If it helps you reflect on the relationship you want, you can keep that personal meaning while making practical choices about dating. A hopeful...
How to Make Your Relationship Grow

How to Make Your Relationship Grow

A relationship can grow through ordinary changes: a request becomes easier to make, a disagreement ends with a clearer plan, or a shared responsibility no longer falls to one person. Growth does not have to mean moving in together, getting married or reaching the next...
14 Tips to Ensure a Relationship Will Endure the Test of Time

14 Tips to Ensure a Relationship Will Endure the Test of Time

It can be confusing to understand what it means when someone says a relationship “takes work.”  It makes sense that people want to focus on the good and pleasurable moments in a relationship and not the hard and difficult ones.  We have compiled 14 tips to help you...
Relationship Expectations: Respect, Agreements and Personal Choice

Relationship Expectations: Respect, Agreements and Personal Choice

Relationship expectations can cover anything from how often you meet to whether you want children. Some concern basic treatment, such as safety and respect. Others are preferences or plans that need discussion. Knowing which is which can help you ask clearly without...
Confusing Relationships

Confusing Relationships

Relationships can be the best of times and can be the worst of times and when your boyfriend is giving you mixed signals, your relationship can be confusing on top of all of it. Here are some tips you can use if you are in a relationship where you are confused:...